Beyond The Silence

Welcome to Beyond the Silence, the official podcast of We Are Survivors. We are a charity based in Greater Manchester that supports men and boys who have been affected rape, sexual abuse and exploitation. Here on Beyond the Silence, we discuss issues that affect male survivors with mental health professionals and people with lived experience.

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Episodes

Monday Aug 04, 2025

CONTENT WARNING: Sexual Violence, Mental Health and Trauma
Timecodes:2:32 - Research Ethics when working with Male Survivors23:16 - Assisting Institutions in Supporting Survivors28:14 - Forced to Penetrate Rape Myths 52:47 - Framing Survivor's Stories Outside of Criminal Justice
RESOURCES:
A Review of the National Male Survivors Helpline and Online Service - https://core.ac.uk/download/pdf/266984492.pdfTackling Violence Against Women and Girls Strategy - https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/tackling-violence-against-women-and-girls-strategySupporting Male Victims of Crimes Considered Violence Against Women and Girls - https://data.parliament.uk/DepositedPapers/Files/DEP2022-0294/Supporting_Male_Victims_March_2022.pdfThe Dynamics and Impact of Sexual Coercion of Men by Women - https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1998-07926-007Similar but Different: Men's and Women's Experiences of Sexual Coercion - https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1998-07926-008JiCSAV: Justice in Covid-19 for Sexual Abuse and Violence - https://committees.parliament.uk/writtenevidence/131218/pdf/Oh You’re a Guy, How Could You Be Raped by a Woman, That Makes No Sense Towards a Case for Legally Recognising and Labelling ‘Forced to Penetrate’ Cases as Rape - https://www.research.lancs.ac.uk/portal/en/publications/oh-youre-a-guy-how-could-you-be-raped-by-a-woman-that-makes-no-sense(4b8befa9-5fed-4306-9d86-7d93ed5e566b).htmlGender Disparities in Sentencing - https://research-information.bris.ac.uk/en/publications/gender-disparities-in-sentencingThe Independent Inquiry into Child Sexual Abuse - https://www.iicsa.org.uk/ 
Contact Us:
support@wearesurvivors.org.uk - Service Information0161 236 2182@thisissurvivors - Instagram, X, Bluesky, Facebook and Tiktok#BreakTheSilence
 
 
 

Monday Jul 28, 2025

CONTENT WARNING: Sexual Violence, Mental Health, Incarceration, Homelessness, Strong Language and Trauma
Timecodes:2:54 - Rob and Jamie talk about working in prison27:56 - News42:25 - Activity Spotlight - OUTSide OUT Spoken50:35 - Letters
NEWS:
The Workforce Impact of Second Chance Hiring - https://www.uschamber.com/workforce/data-deep-dive-the-workforce-impact-of-second-chance-hiring-3
Contact Us:
support@wearesurvivors.org.uk - Service Information0161 236 2182@thisissurvivors - Instagram, X, Bluesky, Facebook and Tiktok#BreakTheSilence
enquiries@mandemmeetup.org - Service Information@mandemmeetup - Instagram, X and Facebook#MandemMeetup

Monday Jul 21, 2025

CONTENT WARNING: Sexual Violence, Mental Health and Trauma
Timecodes:
1:12 - Mark and Jane introduce the Therapy Service
6:03 - Different Therapy Pathways
14:30 - Protection for Therapists
27:56 - News
40:25 - Activity Spotlight - Group Therapy Pilot
48:18 - Letters
NEWS & RESOURCES
Trauma and Recovery (1992): Judith Herman
No Bad Parts - Healing Trauma & Restoring Wholeness (2023): Richard Schwartz
The Eight C's and Five P's of Self: https://foundationifs.org/images/banners/pdf/The_8_Cs_of_Self_Leadership_Wheel.pdf
Investing in Our Mental Health: Priorities for the NHS Ten-Year Plan: https://www.centreformentalhealth.org.uk/investing-in-our-mental-health-priorities-for-the-nhs-ten-year-plan/
Contact Us:
support@wearesurvivors.org.uk - Service Information
0161 236 2182
@thisissurvivors - Instagram, X, Bluesky, Facebook and Tiktok
#BreakTheSilence

Monday Jul 14, 2025

CONTENT WARNING: Sexual Violence, Mental Health and Trauma
Timecodes:
1:58 - Kaelin and Duncan introduce the ISVA Service
5:40 - Reporting to the Police
23:00 - News
51:50 - Activity Spotlight - Nightingale Suite
56:30 - Letters
NEWS
Operation Soteria Survivor Report Findings - https://openaccess.city.ac.uk/id/eprint/34004/
Tackling 'rape myths' among jurors - https://www.hud.ac.uk/news/2020/january/tackling-rape-myths-among-jurors/
Contact Us:
support@wearesurvivors.org.uk - Service Information
0161 236 2182
@thisissurvivors - Instagram, X, Bluesky, Facebook and Tiktok #BreakTheSilence

Thursday Feb 13, 2025

CONTENT WARNING: Sexual Harms, Explicit Language, Drug Use
Timecodes:0:35 - ONIT16:27 Creating Safe Spaces27:45 - A Message from Aisling28:38 - A Message from Monica30:12 - OUTSpoken Prison Service34:30 - Mandem Partnership - Through The Gate40:55 - Community Services44:01 - Working with Perpetrators52:30 - A Message from NJ59:47 - Reflecting on the last 16 years1:05:41 - A Message from A Very Important Somebody1:11:57 - Year of Consent Announcement1:15:10 - Outro
Contact Us:community@wearesurvivors.org.uk - Community Development support@wearesurvivors.org.uk- Service Information 0161 236 2182 @thisissurvivors - Instagram & X #BreakTheSilence

Wednesday Feb 05, 2025

CONTENT WARNING: Sexual Harms, Explicit Language, BDSM, Drug Use
Timecodes:
0:42 - Introductions
8:28 - We Are Survivors' Inception
10:09 - A message from Evan
12:35 - The Early Days
15:30 - Growing the Organisation
22:25 - Becoming a Registered Charity
24:56 - A Message From Craig
30:15 - Crafting the Identity of the Organisation
34:05 - Peer Support (Creating the Saferoom)
42:06 - Campaigns and Partner Organisations
46:05 - Daniel's Journey with We Are Survivors
49:57 - Rebranding the Organisation
1:03:21 - A Message From Jamie
1:07:57 - Outro
Contact Us:
community@wearesurvivors.org.uk - Community Developmentsupport@wearesurvivors.org.uk - Service Information0161 236 2182@thisissurvivors - Instagram & X#BreakTheSilence

Tuesday Dec 03, 2024

CONTENT WARNING: Sexual Violence, Trauma, Suicide, Grooming, Extremism 
Timecodes:1:35 - Nisaa and Riz Introduce WAS Therapy Services5:22 - Barriers to Engaing With Support13:30 - Warning Signs of Grooming 16:47 - Female Perpetrators20:48 - Reframing Cultural Ideas25:54 - News30:26 Activity Spotlight36:33 Letters
NEWS
Britain’s Asylum Process Endangers Sexual Violence Survivors - NISAAhttps://jacobin.com/2024/07/britain-asylum-sexual-violence-migrants
 
Contact Us:
community@wearesurvivors.org.uk - Community Developmentsupport@wearesurvivors.org.uk - Service Information0161 236 2182@thisissurvivors - Instagram & X#BreakTheSilence

Tuesday Nov 26, 2024

CONTENT WARNING: Sexual Violence, Trauma
Timecodes:1:18 - Jamie Introduces Central Operations18:58 News30:38 Activity Spotlight36:30 Letters
NEWS
Digital progress ‘static’ as nearly half of charities say staff skills a barrier: report https://econsultancy.com/digital-skills-charities-2024/
Key findings from the Charity Digital Skills Report 2024 https://charitydigital.org.uk/topics/key-findings-from-the-charity-digital-skills-report-2024-11641
Contact Us:
community@wearesurvivors.org.uk - Community Developmentsupport@wearesurvivors.org.uk - Service Information0161 236 2182@thisissurvivors - Instagram & X#BreakTheSilence

Tuesday Nov 19, 2024

CONTENT WARNING: Sexual Violence, Mental Health, Suicide, Self Harm, Addiction and Trauma
Timecodes:1:18 - Christopher Introduces the Community Development Team4:10 - Christopher Opens Up About His Experience9:33 - Breaking the Silence16:06 - News24:48 - Activity Spotlight: The Writing Room28:59 - Letters
Christopher's Resources:
First Rung: The Killing of Demons and Darlings Review - https://www.northernsoul.me.uk/first-rung-rope-ladder/Purchase Christopher's Short Story in Papaerback - https://flapjackpress.co.uk/shop/first-rung-the-killing-of-demons-and-darlings
NEWSNarrative Therapy: Palestinian Storytelling Through Poetry https://www.thephoenixnews.com/posts/narrative-therapy-palestinian-storytelling-through-poetry
Contact Us:
community@wearesurvivors.org.uk - Community Developmentsupport@wearesurvivors.org.uk - Service Information0161 236 2182@thisissurvivors - Instagram & X#BreakTheSilence

Tuesday Nov 12, 2024

CONTENT WARNING: Sexual Violence, Mental Health and Trauma
Timecodes:1:04 - Joshua Introduces Pathfinder7:20 - Mindfulness23:30 - News36:36 - Activity Spotlight40:04 - Letters
Josh's Resources:
An introduction to Trauma Booklet - https://ctmuhb.nhs.wales/services/mental-health/self-help-resources/stabilisation-pack/stabilisation-pack/intro/an-introduction-to-trauma-pdf/
Mindfulness and self-compassionate guided audios - https://www.compassionatemind.co.uk/resource/audio
Name it to Tame it - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZcDLzppD4Jc
Mindfulness - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qxyVCjp48S4
Breathing - https://www.lung.org/lung-health-diseases/wellness/breathing-exercises
Moving forward - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v2MyyMyUkWU
NEWSWhat is your ‘inner child’, why it can cause adults problems and how to begin healing - JOSHhttps://www.scmp.com/lifestyle/health-wellness/article/3269125/what-your-inner-child-why-it-can-cause-adults-problems-and-how-begin-healing
Contact Us:
community@wearesurvivors.org.uk - Community Developmentsupport@wearesurvivors.org.uk - Service Information0161 236 2182@thisissurvivors - Instagram & X#BreakTheSilence

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